On the June trip that included the stop in Casper, WY, we were having breakfast at a highly recommended diner on our way out of town. When the people in the booth across from us got up to pay, I noticed that the gentleman resembled John Farnam-- but it was sort of a 3/4 view. I watched him go to the cashier and pay the bill. Still having less than a full side profile, I still thought, "he reminds me of John, but....". I hadn't seen John since a police conference in Detroit or Chicago, maybe 4-5 years back. Then I looked at the lady he was with, and it was, for sure, Vicki Farnam. So we got up and said hello and did a little bit of catching up.
When I got home, I checked the DTI site (
https://defense-training.com/ ) and found that in August, John and Vicki were going to be at my local club, as they have been doing for about 25 years now. I promptly signed up my wife for Vicki's 2-day Defensive Handgun for Women class. John's class for the same weekend was Urban Rifle, which I would have loved to take but-- I had to choose one or the other, and I thought the class for Dianna was the better investment. So long story short, we had dinner with the Farnams over the weekend and then they visited the shop on their way out of town Monday AM.
John and Vicki have been doing what they do for such a long time that some people assume they may no longer be doing it. But-- they still are, very much so, and have a full schedule of bringing their goodness to the whole country. They remain deeply committed to getting the knowledge out there. Their continued enthusiasm is inspiring, and their energy impressive. Never mind that as trainers, instructors, well, let's just call them what they are: educators, there are few if any who have the years, the decades, of experience. They have mastered life on the road to be able to offer J. Q. Citizen the opportunity to be safer and more competent and effective with whatever his defensive tool of choice is.... and J.Q. is not the only beneficiary of this reservoir of knowledge and experience. The Farnams also train local, state, and federal agencies as well as our military.
If a person had to choose one class to take, I would just say that I get the temptation to go with who has the best beard and the most tattoos

. I am absolutely not poking fun here-- there are a lot of good, what I call, traveling trainers out there (and some have beards and tattoos, cool.). BUT, I think that with a great many of them, if you could really break it down, and do a DNA analysis of their curriculum, you would find that a lot of it originated with John Farnam. 'Nuff said.
I've had a little more summer to myself than usual with our Patrol Rifle classes being cancelled. These are state-funded and sometimes the state funding is subsidized by Homeland Security. I enjoy the hell out of these, meeting 200-ish police officers a year and being in a position where I can be of service to them, which I find very rewarding. Patrick Sweeney is part of the staff too. These classes are a great venue for Patrick and me to wring out this or that product, maybe pass it around to the students during the week to get their impressions.... and the ranges we work at are great locations for article pictures.
I always enjoy telling my non-police friends how very "ordinary" these students are. They take me as one of them, they accept me, which is an honor that the "me" of twenty-five years ago could only have dreamed of-- to hang with these guys and become friends with a great many of them. So I will tell you what I tell my non-police friends-- that these students, these cops, are more like the rest of us than most of the rest of us would ever guess. The only thing different about them is their extraordinary commitment to doing something to benefit society as a whole. This includes seeing things, doing things and having things done to them that would be pure poison to most of the rest of us. Most of them have something special that allows them to endure this and somehow-- maintain normalcy. I could never do it.
I hear them talk amongst themselves, unguardedly. I have NEVER, in twenty-plus years, heard one brag about "getting over" on citizens, about using their position for personal benefit, about screwing with people for fun. I tell you that to a man, those that I've heard talk, have talked about wanting to be good public servants, about respecting peoples' civil rights, about wanting to help. I've never heard one brag about shooting someone, although many have had to do it. I've never met one who thought it was a good thing. I've heard discussion about, instead, extreme restraint, choosing not to shoot, even at their own risk. Some got shot or stabbed for it. Often there is extreme bravery and sacrifice, although it never comes through via an officer saying "I was extremely brave", never.